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Our guide to mediation with young people and families (Hindi language version)

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You can download our guide to youth and community mediation in a Hindi language version. We’ve produced a guide to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In the ebook we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to contact Ashford Mediation Service and make use of our free mediation services for people in Ashford. View and download The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families ebook (Hindi version) .

Our guide to mediation with young people and families (Nepalese language version)

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You can download our guide to youth and community mediation in a Nepalese language version. We’ve produced a guide to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In the ebook we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to contact Ashford Mediation Service and make use of our free mediation services for people in Ashford. View and download The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families ebook (Nepalese version) .

Keeping Ashford Talking through mediation

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We're helping to keep Ashford talking. The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families We’ve produced a free ebook guide to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. You can download ' The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families ' for free  here  and on  our website . The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families About our work We believe that a community that opens up the channels of communication between one another, will be able to better address the difficult issues that face us all. We launched our “Keep Ashford Talking” campaign to support young people and families in Ashford who are experiencing conflict by providing them with the skills to mediate. ‘Keep Ashford Talking’ is spearheaded by the Ashford Mediation Service (AMS), but we partner with the Kent Police, Ashford Borough Council, Kent County Council,...

How the mediation process works – Keep Ashford Talking

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In this video Sue Pitt, Chair of Ashford Mediation Service, explains how the mediation process works. The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to  contact Ashford Mediation Service  and make use of our free mediation services. Download  The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families . You can also download sections of the guide in the links below: Young people and mediation Family mediation Community mediation The mediation process

The benefits of mediation – Keep Ashford Talking

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In this video Sue Pitt, Chair of Ashford Mediation Service, talks about the benefits of mediation. The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to  contact Ashford Mediation Service  and make use of our free mediation services. Download  The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families . You can also download sections of the guide in the links below: Young people and mediation Family mediation Community mediation The mediation process

Keep Ashford Talking – Youth mediation

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In this video David Jonker, Service Development Manager at Ashford Mediation Service, talks about youth mediation. The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to  contact Ashford Mediation Service  and make use of our free mediation services. Download  The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families . You can also download sections of the guide in the links below: Young people and mediation Family mediation Community mediation The mediation process

Youth mediation – Keep Ashford Talking

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In this video Sue Pitt, Chair of Ashford Mediation Service, talks about youth mediation. The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to  contact Ashford Mediation Service  and make use of our free mediation services. Download  The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families . You can also download sections of the guide in the links below: Young people and mediation Family mediation Community mediation The mediation process

Our guide to mediation with young people and families

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You can download our guide to youth and community mediation. We’ve produced a guide to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In the ebook we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to contact Ashford Mediation Service and make use of our free mediation services. Download The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families . You can also download sections of the guide in the links below: Young people and mediation Family mediation Community mediation The mediation process

The mediation process

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Our guide to the mediation process. We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In this section we take a specific look at  the mediation process . In the  ebook  we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to  contact Ashford Mediation Service  and make use of our free mediation services. Download  The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families .

Family mediation

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Our guide to family mediation. We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In this section we take a specific look at  family mediation . In the  ebook  we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to  contact Ashford Mediation Service  and make use of our free mediation services. Download  The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families .

Community mediation

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Our guide to community mediation. We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In this section we take a specific look at  community mediation . In the  ebook  we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to  contact Ashford Mediation Service  and make use of our free mediation services. Download  The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families .

Youth mediation

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Our guide to youth mediation. We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In this section we take a specific look at  young people and mediation . In the  ebook  we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to  contact Ashford Mediation Service  and make use of our free mediation services. Download  The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families .

Download our free ebook - The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families

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We’ve produced this guide to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In this ebook we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to contact Ashford Mediation Service and make use of our free mediation services. Download 'The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families' .

Useful questions mediators might ask

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Here are examples of some of the questions mediators might ask. What started this? Why have you come to mediation? How do you feel? What would you like from this mediation? What would you like to happen? Have you told them how you feel? How do you think he or she or they may be feeling? Have you got anything to add? Why do you feel this way about? Would you be willing to? Have you any ideas about why this happened? How would you like to resolve this? The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In  this ebook  we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to contact Ashford Mediation Service and make use of our free mediation ser...

How does the mediation process work?

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Find out how the mediation process works. Stage 1 The Mediator prepares for the case with both parties having a pre-meeting on their own with the mediator to hear their account, explain mediation and explore options. Stage 2 If both parties agree, they both go to a joint session where introductions are made, facts and feelings are discussed, and the future is described. Stage 3 If the mediation goes well, an Agreement may be written, and the mediators debrief the session. The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In  this ebook  we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to contact Ashford Mediation Service and make use of ...

Find out more about mediation and Ashford Mediation Service in these videos

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We're helping to keep Ashford talking. In these videos Sue Pitt and David Jonker from Ashford Mediation Service explain how the mediation process works, what mediators do, and the role of Ashford Mediation Service. We’ve produced a guide to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. You can download 'The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families' for free  here  and on  our website .

What is 'Mediation' – a Glossary of Terms

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Mediation is a way to resolve conflict. It’s when two parties come together voluntarily with a mediator to talk through their conflict and find their own solutions. Here's a Glossary of Terms to help you understand the mediation process. Mediate: To talk to two separate people or groups involved in a disagreement to try to help them to agree or find a solution to their problems. Resolve: To come to a definitive decision, to settle, to deal with a matter, uncertainty or problem. Voluntary: To do something that is not compulsory, without payment or reward, or feeling obligated to). Impartial: To be fair, just and unbiased. Empathy: To understand at a deep emotional level, another person’s feelings or problems. Sympathy: To share feelings of another person, particularly around sadness or trouble. Criticise: To find fault, to make judgement about someone’s behaviour or other actions. Confidential: Letting someone know that the information they pass on to you is private and secret and w...

Volunteering with Ashford Mediation Service

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Find out more about volunteering with Ashford Mediation Service. In this video , Sue Pitt, Chair of Ashford Mediation Service, talks about volunteering opportunities with AMS. Ashford Mediation Service provides free confidential and impartial mediation services to residents of Ashford, Kent who are experiencing conflict with others. Visit our website to find out more about our services and how you can join the AMS team .

Tips for mediators

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Here are some useful tips for mediators. Look for any common ground between the parties and reflect that back to them. Try to lower the level of conflict by using more neutral language. The role of the mediator is to facilitate the meeting and the conversations between the parties. Always remember that it is the parties’ conflict, and they must come up with the solution to the situation, not you. Always look for positive comments or offers from the parties. Focus on the problem, not the people. Mediators never take sides. Focus on the future. The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families We’ve produced  a guide  to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In  this ebook  we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community a...

Mediation and Ashford Mediation Service

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We're helping to keep Ashford talking. In these videos Sue Pitt and David Jonker from Ashford Mediation Service explain how the mediation process works, what mediators do, and the role of Ashford Mediation Service . The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families We’ve produced a free ebook guide to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. You can download 'The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families' for free  here  and on  our website . The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families About our work We believe that a community that opens up the channels of communication between one another, will be able to better address the difficult issues that face us all. We launched our “Keep Ashford Talking” campaign to support young people and families in Ashford who are experiencing conflict by providing them with the skil...

The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families

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Download our guide to mediation . We’ve produced this guide to explain what we do and how we can help young people and their families through the use of mediation. In this ebook we explain what mediation is and give people who are helping young people, some tools and skills, hints and tips on how and when to use mediation. We want to encourage young people, families, and community and school leaders, to contact Ashford Mediation Service and make use of our free mediation services. Download 'The Ashford Mediation Service Guide to Mediation with Young People and Families' .